| Autobiographies
nearly always struggle to make the author look good. I think
that is what the Danish philosopher Kierkegaard was trying
to say in the above quote. So...please forgive me if you
fail to find in this book a scarcity of negative assessments.
I have tried to forget the failures. I do promise the reader
a faithful and accurate record of all events, to the best
of my recollections.
I concur with the sentiments of a passage in Charles Swindoll's
book, Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life, (Multnomah
Press, 1983) that remind us:
Quietly, without flare or fanfare, God graciously moves
upon our lives, taking us from season to season as He mysteriously
writes his agenda on the tablets of our hearts.
To that, my wife, Nelina, and I say a loud "AMEN!" As
together we look back over 60 years of married life we
can see God's hand directing our paths. At the time, each
experience looked merely like another unrelated circumstance.
From this perspective we gladly acknowledge our Lord's
sovereign presence and superintendence in each event.
How did I get into this editorial challenge? It all began
one day when I asked Peggy, my oldest daughter-in-law,
to do some small task for me. "Yes, of course," she
replied, "but I want you to promise that you will
begin writing down some thoughts for your memoirs. I want
them for us and for your grandchildren."
So, to quote the poet Robert Service, "A promise
made is a debt unpaid." I had been asked numerous
times to pen the highlights of events during the past eighty-four
years but had successfully avoided doing so until that
day.
"Don't worry about grammatical errors," said
Peggy as she handed me a large, leather-bound notebook
filled with lined paper. "Just write whatever comes
to mind. Don't erase anything." At the end of page
one, however, my eraser was nearly exhausted. My thanks
to Norm Rohrer for his helpful editing and to David Christy
for the book's cover design and photo displays.
The tedious details of my parental roots are well researched
by Peter H. Bogaard of De Meern, Holland, who has published
two books about the Bogaard family reaching back 670 years
to 1320 A.D. Several copies of this book, The Flowering
Orchard, are in the libraries of our family. One is filed
with the Library of Congress in Washington, D.C. I'll leave
to cousin Peter the handling of our family's chronology
and dwell instead on the goodness of God in shaping our
lives according to His will.
I lovingly recognize the parts my father, mother and four
brothers and three sisters have played. They, all in their
own way, had a part in shaping my life.
I must call attention to a picture that my grandfather,
Dirk Bogaard, had taken of him and his family at the turn
of the Century by a professional photographer in front
of their home. He insisted on having the Bible in his outstretched
hands, signifying the importance he placed on God and his
Word. So when I speak of my parents and siblings having
a part in shaping my life, I must include these old saints
who acknowledged the importance of establishing their home
and family on a firm foundation many years before I was
born.
This information was passed on to us by my father who
often expressed his gratitude for being raised in this
kind of environment. At a recent meeting of all my brothers
and sisters, we tried to recall some of our father's favorite
expressions. We made a list and "Count your blessings" came
out on top, hence the title of this book.
Count your blessings,
Name them one by one,
And it will surprise you
What the Lord has done.
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