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date may be about 1975, which is not important in this little
saga. I know it was Sunday at Twin Lakes Church. Roy Kraft
had a good message (as usual). He ended by asking a question, “Are
you a good neighbor? When was the last time you went out
of your way to show your neighbor that you cared about him?”
On the way home I turned that thought over in my mind.
My next door neighbor and I had a nodding acquaintance,
but we never had a conversation. I knew that his wife had
move d out several years before. I saw a taxi drive up
frequently to deliver packages. His work habits were very
irregular. I determined I would call on him that afternoon.
That was a mistake. I should have never gone to church
that morning!
I was cordially greeted at the door and invited into
his home. “No,” I said, “I don’t
care for a glass of vodka.” He told me of his only
child living in Joplin, Missouri, whom he had not seen
since he was a baby, about thirty year earlier. I said “I’ll
take you to the airport tomorrow,” I called the airline
and ordered the ticket. I called his son to be sure he
would be home. Then I took the bottle of vodka and poured
it down the drain. “I’ll pick you up at two
o’clock tomorrow.” I shared my afternoon experience
with Nelina. We wondered if perhaps we had taken Pastor’s
challenge too seriously.
The next day I was at his door at the agreed-upon time.
When I opened it I knew he couldn’t make the trip.
He told me that he had disappointed his son frequently
by not showing up at previous appointments. I told him, “You’re
going, and I’m going with you.” I grabbed a
bag, packed a few things and met Nelina as she was returning
from some duties. “Where are you going?” she
asked. I kissed her on the cheek and said, “I’m
on my way to Joplin, Missouri.” We stayed over night
in Kansas City. The next morning was a short hop to Joplin.
It was worth the trip to see a father greet his son and
embrace his two grandchildren whom he had never met. I
went back to the hotel so they could be left alone to get
acquainted with one another.
While drinking a cup of coffee in the hotel’s café the
gentleman next tom me made some conversation and we soon
shared stories. I told him I da some through Joplin some
forty years before and that I was kicked off a freight
train here. I told him I had slept all night under a water
tower because it was raining. He told me he knew just where
it was and said, “Let me take you there.” I
soon found out he had spent four years in the Navy and
was now selling real estate. He took me down to the old
park next to the tracks. I smiled as I recalled a miserable
night in that very park.
My new friend wanted to show me the lots he had just
listed. These were three-acre sites on a gentle rolling
hills with oak trees scattered, and plenty of open space.
He pointed out a lot that he was planning to purchase.
When I head the price of $10,000 with water and roads in,
compared to Santa Cruz, this was a buy! “I’ll
take it ,” I said.
I was asked to be back for dinner a t the son’s
home that evening. We enjoyed the family setting and a
good meal. That evening back at the motel, we read the
Gideoun Bible together and the doctor was very serious.
After the claims of Christ were presented he said he wanted
to clean up his act and accept the Lord.
Back home, my neighbor attended church and attempted
to stay off the vodka, but we saw evidence of his reverting
back to his old life style. He became more of a nuisance
and would try to talk to Nelina when I wasn’t home.
Finally, I told him I would try to have him committed if
he continued his aggressive behavior. He pleaded not to
be taken away for help. I later saw him sitting on his
cliff about 90 feet above the rocks below. No one knows
if he accidentally fell, or it he jumped off the cliff.
The insurance company paid the life insurance policy. I
met his wife – a very gracious lady – who received
50 percent of his assets. I soon found out the doctor had
appointed me as the custodian for the grandchildren’s
inheritance. We also discovered that there were six grandchildren
instead of two. There were a couple of previous wives.
These funds were to be distributed periodically as the
children reached certain ages. The last would be distributed
in 2015.
I hired a friend to take care of this mess. Cliff Meidinger
was a retired merchant and did a good job. The doctor’s
wife and the son’s inheritance was not our problem.
Then the grandchildren’s portion was given to us
for safekeeping. Cliff sold all the gas stocks, and portions
of real estate and converted it all to cash so there would
be little work to oversee this responsibility. A few years
later when discussing my problem with a friend, who was
an attorney, he suggested I present it to the court. The
grandchildren were now all of age and the judge said if
each would agree he would approve the distribution of the
funds at once. My friend Cliff took care of all the legal
work and put in his fee and included $1,100 for my efforts
and cost that I had incurred.
When the check came, as a surprise to me, I gave it to
Cliff. “No, no!” he insisted as I protested. “I
got paid for everything I did. It’s yours.”
The scene now changes to a young preacher in Hollister.
My wife and I have always tried to encourage and help young
pastors in small churches. Dwight Koopman started this
church a year before. When visiting them, just before Christmas,
they told us that they and their three children would have
a very meager Christmas because the church was not making
the salary budget.
I suggested to Cliff, “Let’s cash in that
eleven hundred dollars and give ten one-hundred-dollar
bills to the Koopmans so the family could enjoy a Christmas.
We’ll take the last one hundred dollars and go out
for dinner. The four of us went to the Koopmans and, needless
to say, they were very happy.
About three years later, my son Vic, who takes care of
all my affairs, walked into my office with sort of a smirk
on his face. “You got away from me didn’t you?” he
said as he threw down a notice from the IRS, notifying
me that I owed them $600 (plus or minus) for not reporting
this income. Cliff had done such a thorough job he sent
the final distribution of all the funds to the IRS. A few
months later the state came in for its share with a letter
informing me that if I wish to contest, “call us
at Fresno.” At least I didn’t go to jail.
I can’t close this little episode without bringing
in two very close friends of ours – Doug and Norma
Welty. They were the parents and the grandparents of the
Koopman children and have included us in their circle of
friends for many years. Doug is a fine draftsman. We frequently
meet for a noon lunch. The Welty’s have experienced
some difficult medical problems within their family. Two
of their six children have been affected with cystic fibrosis.
One child, Jill, died when she was nine years old and the
son, Nathan, died when he was about 20. The parents spent
hours, day and night, nursing these two children.
During one of our last lunches, Doug must have been a
little depressed. He shared with me some of his feelings.
He was now nearly old enough to retire, but he had not
invested for retirement. He expressed other concerns and
said he felt that he had failed. I tried to encourage him
and assured him that he and his family had other successes
that he could look to with pride.
When I returned to my office I shared some of Doug’s
remarks with my son Vic Jr. He was very vocal about the
Welty’s many achievements. He remembers both of them
singing in the choir. He also remembered the Bible studies
they had with their neighbors in their home. Last, but
not least, they had raised a great family. He said he worked
with a daughter, “Toots,” when she helped out
on a job in Chico. He valued her abilities very highly. “Yes,” he
said, “they could be a mentor for any couple that
was looking for a guide to successful living.” He
ended by saying, “Success is not always measured
in dollars and cents.”
Now if the reader is wondering about the lot I bought
in Joplin, Missouri, here is the story: We sold is about
three years later for approximately twice the purchase
price. Yes, the IRS received its share!
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